Tuesday, 11 April 2017

DISCLAIMER: The topic/opinion discussed below states the idea Why users are provided with varied content over porn sites and not why pornography is healthy for us.

The reality of the digital world we live, internet porn is way more vast, accessible and varied than anything else found for human satisfaction!
While discussing internet pornography or enjoying the freedom to choose the category of porn, establishes an enormous divide between perspective,right,choice.

With changing times and digitalization everyone has come across with the variety offered, categories which are unimaginable like-YIFF PORN/OCCULT PORN/OBJECT PORN( I mean why would someone watch a thing like this, no offence!) for a normal human being to express love or meet your body and mental requirements may be absolutely normal for the other person
Pondering on this further, leads to thoughts like what compels the makers/group of team involved to experiment/work/publish such categories and choices like this which further led to series of thoughts.  

When discussed over sex/sexuality which is a taboo to talk about(yeah still!), but is a vital element for any living being in the journey to discover itself, necessity which can’t be ignored, is often met at respective individual levels depending on whom to have with,how to experience it, how to make it more interesting. Also we come across encounters of people who are undergoing identity/sexuality crisis, individuals who appear similar to us -behave, breathe, live, eat but are different when we light upon their sexuality, who are anxious of those blanched looks and irrational comments of society which hold no relevance altogether. Categorization over pornographic websites provides a platform for them to come across themselves not only on the grounds of expressing love but as an individual wholly. Such choices online may act as social as well as motivational tool to accept that they are not the only ones in the society, there are people around the globe experiencing the same ballgame.
Or even better ๐Ÿ˜‰it also acts as a bucket list item for couples to spice up their sex life, explore different aspects of the same regular thing, how they can be more expressive and satisfy theirs as well as their partners need to lead a satisfactory and happier life!

The choice of specific sexual behavior and practices varies from people to people  and gender to gender. A particular kind may be interesting to some and bizarre to others, the root is it doesn’t matter why our individual sexual choices,preferences and practices stimulates but it’s important to address your choices, identifying rights and mental/sexual needs.

The internet provides us with tremendous scope of ideas, leisure, exchange of diverse interests, provided the topics like these which have a sensitive foundation stone should be addressed in a healthy way, understood judiciously and opinionated accordingly and not the other way round.

While pornography is cultivating a new generation of people with unusual yet acceptable ideas and forms, I think ways to  address your sexuality are honesty and open-mindedness, accepting the nature of your body and loving the way you are!