DISCLAIMER:
The topic/opinion discussed below states the idea Why users are provided with
varied content over porn sites and not why pornography is healthy for us.
The reality
of the digital world we live, internet porn is way more vast, accessible and varied
than anything else found for human satisfaction!
While
discussing internet pornography or enjoying the freedom to choose the
category of porn, establishes an enormous divide between
perspective,right,choice.
With
changing times and digitalization everyone has come across with the variety
offered, categories which are unimaginable like-YIFF PORN/OCCULT PORN/OBJECT
PORN( I mean why would someone watch a thing like this, no offence!) for a
normal human being to express love or meet your body and mental requirements
may be absolutely normal for the other person
Pondering on
this further, leads to thoughts like what compels the makers/group of team
involved to experiment/work/publish such categories and choices like this which
further led to series of thoughts.
When
discussed over sex/sexuality which is a taboo to talk about(yeah still!), but is a vital element for any living being in the journey to discover itself, necessity
which can’t be ignored, is often met at respective individual levels depending on whom to have with,how to experience it, how to make it more interesting. Also we come across encounters of people who are undergoing identity/sexuality crisis, individuals who appear similar to us -behave, breathe,
live, eat but are different when we light upon their sexuality, who
are anxious of those blanched looks and irrational comments of society which hold no relevance altogether. Categorization over pornographic websites provides a platform for them to come across themselves not only on the grounds of expressing
love but as an individual wholly. Such choices online may act as social as
well as motivational tool to accept that they are not the only ones in the
society, there are people around the globe experiencing the same ballgame.
Or even
better ๐it also acts as a bucket list item for couples to spice up their sex life, explore different aspects of the same regular thing, how they can be more
expressive and satisfy theirs as well as
their partners need to lead a satisfactory and happier life!
The choice
of specific sexual behavior and practices varies from people to people and gender
to gender. A particular kind may be interesting to some and bizarre to others,
the root is it doesn’t matter why our individual sexual choices,preferences and
practices stimulates but it’s important to address your choices, identifying rights and
mental/sexual needs.
The internet
provides us with tremendous scope of ideas, leisure, exchange of diverse
interests, provided the topics like these which have a sensitive foundation
stone should be addressed in a healthy way, understood judiciously and
opinionated accordingly and not the other way round.
While
pornography is cultivating a new generation of people with unusual yet
acceptable ideas and forms, I think ways to address your sexuality are honesty and
open-mindedness, accepting the nature of your body and loving the way you are!